Relationships are complicated, which means Valentine’s Day is, too. Perhaps February 14 has prompted the “What are we?” conversation — or perhaps you’re both frantically dancing around any mention of old St. Valentine. Either way, complaining that it’s “just a Hallmark holiday” isn’t going to cut it: It’s time to get shopping. Whether you want to find a low-key gift for your situationship, how to strike the right tone with your office crush, or how to avoid playing favorites in a throuple, read below for my suggestions from Amazon and beyond.

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